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Appendix IX. Formal Invitations

Precedence of extending invitations:

• The types and times of events and their guest lists should be coordinated among offices while planning is in the early stages. As the ranking campus administrator, the president’s guest list should be prepared first, and those invitations should be mailed before any others. Invited guests of the president should not be invited to other functions that occur at the same time.
• On occasions hosted by university trustees, that group takes precedence. Invitations from the trustees are often issued jointly with the president.
• Invitations for other functions can be sent one week after the president’s invitations.
• When guest lists do overlap, one solution is to time functions so that people can attend several. Put a reasonable amount of time between your gathering and the one that precedes it and make sure that the host and purpose of your function are clear to avoid hurt feelings if some constituents are not invited to all events. If the president hosts a group made up exclusively of arts and sciences alumni, it would not be acceptable to invite only a few of them to a college reception that follows. If the president hosts a group of mixed constituents, it is not necessary to invite the entire group to the college reception.

Coordination of invitations from several offices:

• Send all of the invitations pertaining to the event in one envelope. When several offices are arranging components of a special occasion, all invitations  should be of the same quality. It is not necessary that they match graphically, but they must match in terms of correctness and taste.
• Once the guest replies affirmatively, send the appropriate credentials and passes in one neatly organized packet.

General guidelines for creating invitations:

• Choose a traditional ink color. Black is the most correct choice and black is required if you are producing very formal invitations. Avoid light or bright colors or metallics.
• Type styles should be easy to read; the preferred and most correct font for formal invitations is script.
• The most traditional format is a plain card measuring 4.5 inches wide by 5.75 inches tall or 4.75 inches wide by 7.25 inches tall. A double-fold invitation printed on the first page, like those used for weddings, is also correct. It is attractive and correct to print the institution’s official logo at the top of the page.

Components of an invitation:

• The purpose of the event should be clearly stated in small type at the top left-hand corner of the invitation or in the middle of the body of the invitation. (Examples: In honor of, To commemorate the anniversary of, The ribbon cutting for, To meet, To kick off, To announce, To congratulate, To celebrate.)
• Invitations come from people, not entities. It is correct to say, “The Board of Trustees of … .” because the board is made up of people. It is incorrect to say, “Major State University requests the pleasure of your company.”
• All formal invitations are worded in the third person (and their acceptances and regrets are answered in the same form and by hand).

The 10 basic elements of an invitation:

Line 1: the organization’s symbol. (It should be small enough to be tasteful and unobtrusive.)
Line 2: the names of the hosts. On formal invitations for official university entertaining, use the host’s full name (Sumter August Moore, junior). The person’s title goes on the second line. Omit honorifics such as Dr., Mr., etc. unless the person holds an official rank, such as mayor or judge; is a member of Congress or the President’s cabinet; or is a diplomat or a military officer. On an informal invitation, it is acceptable to use the host’s nickname. When there are several hosts, the most senior person’s name is listed first. If you want to list the hosts on the same line, the most senior person’s name appears on the left-hand side. When the invitation is from a committee and the people are of approximately equal business or social rank, list the members alphabetically at the top of the invitation. Omit honorifics except for persons with official rank. List the names in two or three columns if necessary. Be consistent about the use of honorifics and the format of names. Examples:

 

Sumter A. Moore, Jr.
President
and
Charles P. Jones
Director of Athletics
request the pleasure of your company



Sumter A. Moore, Jr., President         Charles P. Jones, Director of Athletics
request the pleasure of your company



from a university president and his spouse:

Dr. and Mrs. Sumter A. Moore, Jr.
request the pleasure of your company

Line 3: This line extends the invitation. Phrasing is dictated by tradition. “Requests the pleasure of your company at” is the most often used. For very high-ranking or distinguished people, the phrase “request the honor of your company” is most appropriate. “Cordially invites you to” or “invites you to join us” are less formal.
Line 4: Tell the kind of event you are having. This is usually a one- or two-word statement. (Example: “dinner,” “a reception,” “lunch” or “cocktails.”)
Line 5: Tell the purpose of the event: “in honor of the 1998 President's Scholars” or “to welcome …”
Line 6: The date. On a formal invitation, write it out: “Friday, the twelfth of February.” Less formal invitations can use the more common version, “Friday, February 12.” Only the day and month are capitalized.
Line 7: State the hour. On formal invitations, use words instead of numbers to indicate time: “at nine o’clock,” “at half past six o’clock,” “at quarter past seven o'clock.” You may also say “six-thirty o’clock,” or “from six-thirty to eight-thirty o’clock.” Noon is indicated as “noon” or “twelve o’clock.”
Line 8: Tell the place, including street address. For campus buildings, state the room within the building, building name and street address. (Example: Alumni Memorial Gallery, 13 Main Hall, 220 Campus Drive) If using off-campus property, state the full name, street and city. Addresses should be written out unless the number cannot be written in a few words: “Thirty-one Hill Street” but “1310 Hill Street.” Avoid using any numerals other than phone numbers.
Line 9: The bottom right-hand corner of the invitation is reserved for special instructions, such as “black tie,” “map enclosed” and “rain date.”
Line 10: The R.S.V.P. information. If you are issuing a traditional formal invitation without an R.S.V.P. card, print the address and telephone number of the person handling replies. If you are supplying R.S.V.P. cards, use the statement “R.S.V.P. card enclosed.” For more informal invitations, simply use R.S.V.P. and a phone number. Don’t use the phrase “regrets only.” Do not put a cutoff date under R.S.V.P. It can be written in upper case (R.S.V.P) or R.s.v.p. Be consistent on all of your invitations. Do not write Please R.S.V.P. (it is redundant).

Additional inserts:

• Complete the invitation by including a matching printed R.S.V.P. card and a selfaddressed envelope.
• It is not necessary to supply postage on the reply envelope.
• When you supply an R.S.V.P. card, do not also print the reply address on the invitation.
• If maps, ticket-order cards, or other special instructions are needed, they should be printed to match.

Addressing the envelopes:

• Envelopes should be of good quality and match the invitation.
• Print your return address on the flap.
• Hand-written addresses in black fountain pen or a black roller-ball pen should be used. If hand-addressing is not feasible, the next best alternative is a computer- generated address directly on the envelopes using black ink.
• Never use labels, even clear ones, on formal invitations or reply cards.

Stuffing the envelopes:

• Insert the invitation into the envelope so that the folded side is at the bottom of the envelope.
• The invitation’s front or printed side should peek out of the V cut into the flap side of the envelope so that when the person opens the envelope and pulls the invitation out, it is face up in reading position.
• Stack the R.S.V.P. card and other inserts on top of the invitation so they cannot be missed.

Mailing:

• Send formal invitations by first-class mail, using an attractive commemorative postage stamp, preferably one that reinforces the event theme. Never use a postage meter.
• Mailing invitations four to six weeks in advance of the event is standard for a major event or for a breakfast, luncheon, dinner or evening reception.
• Mailing three weeks in advance of the event is sufficient for an afternoon tea, a reception or a cocktail party.

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