University of Mary Washington sophomore Lauren Spagnuolo knew the morning would be memorable, but she didn’t anticipate just how special it would be. Moments after arriving at Fredericksburg’s Walker-Grant Center, the psychology major found herself on the floor beside local preschoolers as they opened brightly wrapped gift boxes filled with toys, art supplies, hats and gloves, toothbrushes and more.
One preschooler hugged a new teddy bear. Others held up Play-Doh and Hot Wheels cars, and squealed with delight over favorites like Bluey, Sonic and Barbie. The joyful scene marked the culmination of UMW’s annual Gift Box Drive, a decades-long service tradition coordinated by Community Outreach and Resources (COAR), part of the University’s Center for Community Engagement.
Spagnuolo, who also minors in disability studies, spent the semester staffing information tables, collecting donations and explaining the project to fellow students. “The experience was really gratifying,” she said. “I loved the holiday spirit of it all. The wrapping party was great, tabling was fun and getting to help the kids open their boxes made everything come full circle.”
Mary Washington’s campus community filled 300 boxes this year for children enrolled in Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania’s Head Start and Virginia Preschool Initiative programs. COAR student leaders guided every step of the process, from planning the wrapping party – which drew more than 70 student volunteers — to sorting and checking the boxes before delivery.
The festivities unfolded in small groups as each preschool class gathered around Santa — played for the second year by Frank Dodson, a Fredericksburg City Schools maintenance employee who volunteered for the role. Dressed in a red suit and surrounded by twinkling holiday décor, he led a round of “Jingle Bells” before inviting the children to open their boxes. “Seeing the smiles and laughter from the children makes it easy to help,” Dodson said.
For COAR’s staff director, Emily Helpinstill, a junior English major and linguistics minor, those smiles illustrate why the program has endured. “The schools really appreciate it, especially since some families need extra support around this time of year. I’m glad we can help meet those needs,” she said.
Junior Sarah Tyree-Herrmann, a double major in political science and women’s, gender and sexuality studies, agreed that seeing the children’s reactions was the highlight of the day. “My sister is a teacher, so I know how meaningful these experiences can be,” she said. “It’s a fun time of year, and being with the preschoolers made it even better.”
Teachers say the event has become a cherished tradition. Jackie Haynes, a long-time educator who now serves as a substitute, has participated for more than two decades. “Our kids just love it, and the college students are so sweet,” she said. “The excitement never fades.”
For Mary Washington students, the experience is just as meaningful. “It’s always a special day,” said Sarah Dewees, director of the Center for Community Engagement. “The program brings the preschoolers such joy while giving our students hands-on experience with project management, teamwork and community partnership.”
Coordinating the day for the Fredericksburg City Public Schools Preschool Program was Instructional Coach Scarlett Walker, who braved unexpected snow to pick up the gift boxes and ensure they reached students on schedule. “I wanted everything ready to go; no one wanted to postpone this,” Walker said. “Our kids – and staff – look forward to it all year.”

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